Why Am I So Busy?

Why Am I So Busy This Week

The day got away from me and I nearly missed this one. Heads up, there’s going to be a lot less pep this week. I’m so busy because a lot of people just kind of suck. On top of working as a pro-domme, I have two other jobs, three if you can’t my non-sexy freelance work. And a sizable amount of my time was spent dealing with potential clients who had a lot of questions, needed a lot of individual attention, and then dropped off the face of the earth!

Now, when you’re freelancing, you expect a certain amount of client attrition. Not every person who contacts you will turn into a paying client but when you have people who say, “Yes, do it.” and then disappear, you as a freelancer take a huge hit, financially. You invested time in the client, you may even have already begun the work. If you’re not freelancing full time, you work when your schedule allows it.

So I got more than the usual number of those winners this week, who wasted a lot of my time (and by extension money). All that time I put into those projects could have been put into writing my book or finding a cover artist or just taking a fucking break. Add in that one of my “job-jobs” relies heavily on tipping and few key big-ticket customers felt that tipping was optional and now it’s the end of the month and I’m scrambling to pay rent, bills, and my student loans debt.

We’ll see if I keep up the page and seeking out new pro-domme clients are just going back to doing sessions with clients I’ve already established a relationship with. I really like being a domme and I like making people happy but this endeavor is turning into an absolute time suck and a major drain on my energy and resources.

/rant concluded/

Why Am I So Busy?

Why Am I So Busy This Week?

I can’t believe it’s time for this again. I guess that’s what happens when you have a lot of plans and not a lot of time. So, why am I so busy this week? A big part of it was catching up from being sick last week. A lot of just being a functioning human got put on the back burning because germs. I’m (nearly) back to 100% this week so I’ve been catching up on all the things I’ve missed. I had several panty orders last week I wasn’t able to prepare and send out. The soon-to-be recipients have been contacted and have been super accommodating. Thanks guys, you know who you are. Continue reading “Why Am I So Busy This Week?”

Why Am I So Busy?

Why Am I So Busy This Week?

I feel like I just did this. So why am I so busy this week? We’ll after a crazy long weekend full of work, I had Monday off (Yeah!) I also got sick (Boo). I guess that’s what happens when you have to deal with literally hundreds of different people in the course of your day. And of course, I was back to the grind on Tuesday.

I’ve started to feel a little better today which is good but I feel like being sick took a big chunk out of my writing time. I made a little progress on my dating book but not nearly as much as I would have liked. It’s currently around 20 pages and I keep finding I need to add more sections. It’s a how-to guide to online dating in part but I’m also finding I need to include a lot of philosophy of dating in the 21st-century stuff in order for the book to make sense and not just be a list of rules without any justification. It’ll be as streamlined as possible when it’s available, I promise.

What else? So much else including a new thing I want to try for the website that’s going to launch tomorrow, so I should get back to work.

Why Am I So Busy?

Why Am I So Busy This Week?

I’m on CollarSpace quite a bit and one of the most common messages I get there is, “How are you?” Honestly, the answer is almost alway busy. And because I’m busy I don’t have the time or inclination to explain why I’m busy to every random sub who asks. So, to satisfy your voyeuristic curiosity, welcome to the first the first in a weekly series, “Why Am I So Busy This Week?” Continue reading “Why Am I So Busy This Week?”